Josh Steiner
Co-founder, SSW Partners (private equity, family-capital) · Member, Yale University Investment Committee (~decade) · Former Chief of Staff, US Treasury (Clinton administration, age 27) · Co-founder, Quadrangle Group (private equity, 2000) · Former operator at Bloomberg LP (2010s) · Co-author, From Mistakes to Meaning: Owning Your Past So It Doesn't Own You
“Most decisions that we make involve both a desire to approach something and a desire to avoid that very thing itself. We're not anxious about things that we have no desire to do. No one feels particularly anxious about falling into a pit full of vipers, because you don't really face that as a possibility. You might well feel anxious if you're at your child's birthday party and they're going off and they're passing pets around and one of which is a giant snake.”
“In investing, there's a recognition that almost every compelling investment has an approach avoidance capacity. It's that willingness to understand what is compelling about it and what is making us fearful. Not in a binary sense, it's the word and not. But that's why when we're looking at investment I don't like risks and attractions. These things aren't diametrically opposed. A more effective tool is to say what do you have to believe to be true in order to be attracted to this?”
“We are trying to be attracted to be investors. We have to put money to work. Just thinking about the risk is ineffective.”
“For anyone who's ever kept a journal or a diary or written a letter to a girlfriend, you're not trying to provide a verbatim account of what happened. You're trying to write impressionistically. And in my case... what I had written didn't completely comport with what I remembered because it was an attempt to write a verbatim account.”
Josh Steiner
One-line summary: Polymath of NY/DC power corridors across government, media, finance; subject of Capital Allocators Ep. 502 on mistakes across investing deal-level, business-management, people-management, and IC-service. Articulates the approach-avoidance reframe for investment decisions: replace 'risks vs attractions' with 'what do you have to believe to be true in order to be attracted to this?'
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On approach-avoidance-investment-framework:
"Most decisions that we make involve both a desire to approach something and a desire to avoid that very thing itself. We're not anxious about things that we have no desire to do. No one feels particularly anxious about falling into a pit full of vipers, because you don't really face that as a possibility. You might well feel anxious if you're at your child's birthday party and they're going off and they're passing pets around and one of which is a giant snake." — 2026-05-18-podcast-capital-allocators-making-mistakes-josh-steiner-ep-502 (2026-05-18)
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On approach-avoidance-investment-framework:
"In investing, there's a recognition that almost every compelling investment has an approach avoidance capacity. It's that willingness to understand what is compelling about it and what is making us fearful. Not in a binary sense, it's the word and not. But that's why when we're looking at investment I don't like risks and attractions. These things aren't diametrically opposed. A more effective tool is to say what do you have to believe to be true in order to be attracted to this?" — 2026-05-18-podcast-capital-allocators-making-mistakes-josh-steiner-ep-502 (2026-05-18)
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On approach-avoidance-investment-framework:
"We are trying to be attracted to be investors. We have to put money to work. Just thinking about the risk is ineffective." — 2026-05-18-podcast-capital-allocators-making-mistakes-josh-steiner-ep-502 (2026-05-18)
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On investment-mistake-taxonomy:
"For anyone who's ever kept a journal or a diary or written a letter to a girlfriend, you're not trying to provide a verbatim account of what happened. You're trying to write impressionistically. And in my case... what I had written didn't completely comport with what I remembered because it was an attempt to write a verbatim account." — 2026-05-18-podcast-capital-allocators-making-mistakes-josh-steiner-ep-502 (2026-05-18)
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